Posts by Giovanna Rossi
The Kind of Mentoring That Actually Changes Lives with Tamara Thorpe & Lisa Fain
Hey Well Woman! There is a version of mentoring most of us have experienced. Someone more senior offers guidance. You receive it gratefully. You go to lunch, have a polished conversation, and leave feeling like something is supposed to have happened, even if you’re not quite sure what. And then there is the other kind.…
Read Full Post359: Building a Culture of Mentoring That Sustains Women Leaders with Tamara Thorpe & Lisa Fain
Mentoring is one of the most powerful levers for women’s growth and one of the most misunderstood.
In this rich conversation, Giovanna sits down with two women who have dedicated their careers to getting mentoring right: Tamara Thorpe and Lisa Fain.
Tamara Thorpe is the Founder of Real Mentors Network while Lisa Fain is the CEO of Center for Mentoring Excellence. They bring a combined 40+ years of mentoring excellence across industries, sectors, and global communities.
Together, they pull back the curtain on why so many workplace mentoring programs quietly fall flat and what it actually takes to build a mentoring culture that helps people thrive, not just perform.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- Why mentoring is “the most promiscuously used word in leadership development” — and what it actually means
- The three core elements of effective mentoring: reciprocity, learning, and co-creation
- Why mentoring is a “triple win” for individuals, leaders, and organizations
- Why mentoring programs fail when treated as a DEI add-on or a technology fix
- Why great mentors are coaches — but not all great coaches are mentors
- How top leadership buy-in makes mentoring measurable and how to find your mentoring ROI
This is a conversation that will make you look at every mentoring relationship — past, present, and future — with fresh eyes.
✨ Ease in knowing that the best mentoring relationships do not require you to have all the answers. Real mentoring flows from curiosity, not expertise. When you stop trying to give advice and start asking better questions, something opens up for both of you.
✨ Joy in the reciprocity. The mentor gains as much as the mentee. More engaged work, broader perspective, deeper satisfaction — these are not byproducts. They are the point. There is something genuinely joyful in a relationship where both people walk away more whole than they arrived.
✨ Impact in building something that lasts. A single well-supported mentoring culture can change retention rates, career trajectories, and the texture of daily work life for everyone in an organization. That kind of impact is quiet, cumulative, and profound.
✨ Self-trust in knowing when a relationship is truly investing in you and when it only looks like it is. Lisa knew the difference between her lunches and her real mentor, even before she had words for it. You already know the difference too. Trust what you feel in those relationships. That instinct is your compass.
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✨ The Well Woman Show is delighted to partner with the Work and Family Researchers Network and its next conference June 17-20, 2026 in Montreal, Canada. For more information, look to https://wfrn.org/2026-work-and-family-researchers-network-conference/
✨ Join other smart, high-achieving women to rewrite the rules for how to love, lead, and succeed so you can live with more joy, ease, and abundance, even when life is tough.
🔗 Click here to join The Well Woman Academy™ group coaching program now! https://wellwomanlife.com/academy
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Resources Mentioned
Connect with Tamara Thorpe and Lisa Fain
- Website: Mentoring Program Success Lab
- IG (Tamara): https://www.instagram.com/realmentorsnetwork
- IG (Lisa): https://www.instagram.com/lzfain
- FB (Real Mentors Network: https://www.facebook.com/RealMentorsNetwork/
Connect with Giovanna
- Website: https://wellwomanlife.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/wellwomanlife
- FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheWellWomanShow#
- YT: https://www.youtube.com/@wellwomanlife128
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/giovannarossi/
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You Are Already The Expert. Now Build Like It: On worth, new systems, indigenous knowledge, and the future women are building toward with Vanessa Roanhorse
Hey Well Woman! There’s something I keep seeing happen to women doing meaningful work. They get good at it, really good, and then they undercharge for it, hide it inside a structure that wasn’t built for it, or wait for someone else to confirm what they already know. They do the work. They just don’t…
Read Full Post358: Indigenous Knowledge and Building New Systems with Vanessa Roanhorse
How many times have I watched brilliant, capable women quietly talk themselves out of their own value, defaulting to structures that weren’t built for them, avoiding the language of profit like it would somehow compromise their integrity, waiting for the right credential or the right moment to finally call themselves the expert they already are?
It’s a pattern that runs deeper than most of us realize and it’s long overdue to name it out loud.
My guest today is Vanessa Roanhorse, CEO of Roanhorse Consulting and Return on Indigenous Studios, a for-profit social enterprise rooted in Indigenous knowledge. A citizen of the Navajo Nation, she started her business in 2016 trying to close her own personal wealth gap. No financial background, no roadmap, just relationships and a willingness to keep asking why. Over the next decade, she evolved her firm into what she now calls an Indigenous ecosystem architecture firm, redesigning how institutions think about risk, building new capital mechanisms, and launching Return on Indigenous Studios to take community-centered businesses from idea to full capitalization.
This conversation goes far beyond what Vanessa built. It’s about how she built it and why the way she did it matters for every woman listening.
Because the story of Roanhorse Consulting is not just a business story. It’s a story about what happens when a woman stops asking permission to do good work profitably, starts building systems that didn’t exist before, stays rooted in relationships when everything around her is uncertain, and works through enough grief, therapy, and hard decisions to finally arrive at the place where she knows, without question, exactly what she is doing.
I think every woman in the middle of her own long game needs to hear this one.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- Why women doing mission-driven work keep underselling themselves as experts and what it looks like to stop
- How Vanessa made the case for a for-profit social enterprise, and what that choice can teach any woman building at the intersection of purpose and income
- What it means to build new systems instead of just participating in old ones and how to teach that thinking to others
- Why relationships are not just a personal value but a structural strategy, especially in uncertain times
- How to stay grounded in your work and your purpose when the external environment feels chaotic and find what’s yours to do
- Why more women need to name their version of elderhood and give themselves permission to work toward it now
Behind every woman who makes it look easy, there is a decade of figuring it out. Behind every new system, there are years of asking why the old one wasn’t working. And behind every vision of a different future, there is a woman willing to build toward it before anyone else can see it yet.
✨ Ease in knowing that you don’t have to shrink your work to make it meaningful. Vanessa chose a for-profit structure not despite her values, but because of them. You are allowed to own your expertise, charge what you’re worth, and build in a way that also sustains you.
✨ Joy in giving yourself permission to name what you’re actually working toward. Vanessa knows exactly what she’s building toward: an elderhood where she gets to be present, available, and free. What does your version of that look like? Start there.
✨ Impact in understanding that the most durable impact isn’t always built at scale, it’s built in relationships, in rooms where decisions get made, in the quiet work of holding knowledge and passing it forward.
✨ Self-trust in recognizing that walking away from something that no longer feels right is not failure. Vanessa stepped away from an organization she co-founded because it stopped feeling good and that decision became the moment she finally knew exactly what she was doing. When something stops feeling right, that is information. You are allowed to listen to it.
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✨ The Well Woman Show is delighted to partner with the Work and Family Researchers Network and its next conference June 17-20, 2026 in Montreal, Canada. For more information, look to https://wfrn.org/2026-work-and-family-researchers-network-conference/
✨ Join other smart, high-achieving women to rewrite the rules for how to love, lead, and succeed — so you can live with more joy, ease, and abundance, even when life is tough.
🔗 Click here to join The Well Woman Academy™ group coaching program now! https://wellwomanlife.com/academy
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Resources Mentioned
- The Color of Money: Black Banks and the Racial Wealth Gap by Mehrsa Baradaran
- Practicing Liberation: Transformative Strategies for Collective Healing & Systems Change by Tessa Hicks Peterson & Hala Khouri
Connect with Vanessa Roanhorse
- Website: https://roanhorseconsulting.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/roanhorseconsultingllc/
- FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100042407024580
Connect with Giovanna
- Website: https://wellwomanlife.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/wellwomanlife
- FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheWellWomanShow#
- YT: https://www.youtube.com/@wellwomanlife128
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/giovannarossi/
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the Well Woman Show on your favorite podcast platform and leave us a review. Share it with a woman who needs to hear this. Your support helps us continue bringing you conversations with incredible women leaders who are changing the world.
The Work the Economy Finally Can’t Ignore: A Conversation with Lucía Cirmi Obón
Hey Well Woman! Think about the last time you did something for someone else that no one noticed. Not because it wasn’t important. But because it was so woven into the fabric of daily life that its absence would have been felt long before its presence ever was. That’s the nature of care. It holds…
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